An Event that marked My Transition from Childhood to Adulthood -- Lu Gan


When I was fourteen years old, my parents left me at home and moved to another city for work. In the five years that followed, I only saw them once a year. Prior to making this decision, they asked me if I could handle everything while they were away. I assured them that I could, as I understood the circumstances that led them to make such a difficult choice. However, I soon realized that things were not as easy as I had imagined after they departed. I had to take care of various daily tasks, including studying, cooking, and housework. If I didn't manage my expenses properly, I would find myself in a financial bind. 

 Nevertheless, after a few months of living independently, I became proficient at organizing my studies and daily life. I created a schedule for myself and devised a sensible spending plan to ensure that I wouldn't run out of money by the end of each month. Whenever I encountered challenging problems that I couldn't solve on my own, I sought help from others. Additionally, I invited some classmates over for dinner, which helped alleviate any feelings of loneliness during the weekends. Through these experiences, I acquired numerous life skills, particularly in cooking, and became quite adept in the kitchen. 

 These experiences enabled me to mature quickly and become an independent adult. They also shaped my character, instilling in me qualities such as optimism, positivity, sociability, and perseverance. Furthermore, they gave me the courage to confront and overcome any difficulties or challenges that may arise in my future life and studies.

Comments

  1. Chia MiyaharaJuly 5, 2023 at 5:22 PM

    I respect you. I can't imagine your situation. It has passed approximately five months since I came here, but I already miss my families.

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  2. Chien NguyenJuly 5, 2023 at 5:23 PM

    How wonderful it is! Now, you are truly a better version. Enjoy your life and peace be with you, mama!

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  3. Ilryeon YunJuly 5, 2023 at 5:24 PM

    That must have been tough. I was really surprised at your background.

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  4. Nao MiyaharaJuly 5, 2023 at 5:25 PM

    I really respect you because if I were you, I definitely couldn't solve it.

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  5. David WoodfieldJuly 5, 2023 at 5:27 PM

    A rather amazing story, Lu. It would have been possible for you to have felt angry and neglected in this situation, but instead you used it as an opportunity to grow. There are a lot of 'so called adults' who could learn a lot about 'taking responsibility for themselves' from your 14-year-old self. David :-)

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  6. Asaka MatsudaJuly 5, 2023 at 5:38 PM

    If I were you, I wouldn't have overcome the difficulties. I couldn't think about living by myself when I was 14 years old!!

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  7. Fumiya NakagawaJuly 5, 2023 at 6:56 PM

    What a great experience. I really respect you.

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